When you want-to-be/feel alone, with a head-full of thoughts, its time for some silent musings, some personal cerebrations, some place to put down your thoughts- may be to come back to them, read, ponder and wonder . . . . how stupid!
Carry on to read some persuasions of a weird & perverted mind ;-)


Friday, November 04, 2005
The Natural Progression of a Relationship

I don't have any slightest ideas as to from where I copied this! Its from some site (you can google and also lemme know, I'm too lazy to do that now!). I'm not sure if it applies to others too or how commonplace is this procedure of falling in love; but I feel exactly like this in my case! And of course, would like to know how you feel about it. Thought would share this with others too! So n'joy being in love . . . .

1.) Interest and Attraction -- this is where two people initially see or meet each other and decide they both want to get to know each other better.

2.) Infatuation and Falling in Love -- this is the stage where you become blinded by your emotions and oftentimes behave like a love-sick puppy dog. The attention and mushiness of the other person makes you feel really great about yourself and you begin to fall "in love".This is all about how YOU feel about yourself because of the other person. IT is NOT love. It is that thing that reduces you to a slobbering fool who speaks in "baby talk".

3.) The Comfort Zone -- this is where you start to relax, and move out of the infatuation stage into something more "real". This is also the time where feelings begin to deepen towards the other person while experiencing a reduced feeling of being "in love". After being in this stage for awhile many people make the mistake of thinking the relationship is in trouble because they aren't still infatuated. In reality, the relationship is beginning to grow into Mature Love. So many people bail at this point and never actually reach the "Love" stage.

4.) Mature Love -- this is the real deal, folks. You have reached the point of having a genuinely mature relationship, that, if you have chosen the right partner, is a beautiful thing.

Reaching stage 4 doesn't mean the fun is all over, though. You can and will go from stage to stage at different times throughout the relationship. You can even learn to do things that will make you and your partner feel infatuated and falling in love all over again. Most relationships are either made or broken during the Comfort Zone.

Current Music: Motherjane's Soul Corporations
Current Wish:  Someone go bring her here!


Posted at 11/4/2005 6:17:48 pm by blackfog
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Wednesday, November 02, 2005
Heyy!!

I am backnailbut still nail-biting. 'coz there were a few who were contemplating my murder and I am afraid they might have already given out the supari.

You see, Siddharta had left home one fine day and after 40 days was enlightened! (as Buddha). Jesus Christ also had left home to preach & heal and became God!
Well my absence was a spurious correlation I derived between running from home and attainment of knowledge! I have just returned but as empty headed as I had left! As soon as I returned I thought would write a to 'Hi' to all of you and wish you a very Happy DiwaliGrinning.
Ok that was a bad one I pulled off but then . . .umm. . ahem. . . well I dont know a good excuse for procrastination :(

My special apologies go out to Vandy di, Nikita (for being underground for so long!), dearest Munnu bhaiyya, Sayesha, Sweetu and others from my 'regular reads'.

Came back from home after rakhi and was busy killing time around, working online, attending classes (YEAHH you got it right, me in classessick), falling in love (blushing). . .
Had not left blogosphere, but became a passive reader all through. Ok I will confess another problem here: wanting to give my best to anything always delays that thing :( Now drawing the line between ok, good and best  is hard. So, although I wrote a few good things but then drafted them. Though of putting them here when I 'refine' them! But then what the heck? Why not do the good things (read updating!) when good times are around (read diwali!).

Well the semester had been a demanding one and not to mention her, she is always soo demanding {Oops did I just said that???blushing Oh sorry dear. . .  please don't be mad . . . you know I didn't meant it. . . Oh c'mon there is nothing to frown about. . . yeah of course all my time is yours only . . . heyyy who said I don't love you . . .  and now where are you going. . . .  STOP . . FREEZE . . . *slap*  *slap* D'ohblushing).
Heyy guys! how ya doing?? You didn't heard anything, right? Or did ya ??????

Well... jokes apart, that was most of my last 3 months. And this is how this month gonne be-- between 15th and 20th Nov. the whole sem is gonna end - final year project, course project, 4 courses, 4 papers in 3 days, CAT on 20th, 2 presentations and a 60000/- project's deadline. Phew! It'll hail in hell before I accomplish all that in 20 days from now. But gotta give deadlines a good fightIamDude

Thankfully its diwali night and I had a good shower after sooo many weeks , cleaned my room for the first time in years :) updated my blog after months, did so many good things but I think I gotta make a move and go back to some monotonous things too - read STUDIES!!

Last but not the least, heres wishing you all an amazing diwali and a rewarding year all through :)
 

Posted at 11/2/2005 3:51:32 am by blackfog
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Sunday, August 14, 2005
If we hold on together

Will be gone HOME in a few hours from now and for the first time I have been in such a dilemma- don't want to leave her and go but again I want to be with Meenu di this rakhi after being away from home for four consecutive rakhis. I called this visit unfortunate & misplaced and wished that rains again wash a few rail-tracks today but probably I was stupid or that can be artributed to 'the rush of blood to my head'. NO I WON'T wish anything like that and I regret that I did. I'll have a great time at home (Xcited) without missing 'you' and hope 'you' do exactly the same (may be except for this tuesdaywanting to cry my heart out).

Also off late have had a few bad dreams, really bad onesshit-scaredand here is a song that took away the worries, each time I had a bad thought about us. And thanks dear for ur faith you put in me, the strenght you give, ur unending care and all ur love you shower me with.... you've always been an absolute sweetheartI Love You [and hope this song conveys the message to you- of LIVING!  oyeee don't you dare miss me!]

If We Hold on Together by Diana Ross

Don’t lose your way
With each passing day,
You’ve come so far
Don’t throw it away.
Live believing
Dreams are for weaving
Wonders are waiting to start.
Live your story
Faith, hope & glory
Hold to the truth in your heart.

If we hold on together
I know our dreams will never die
Dreams see us through to forever
Where clouds roll by
For you and I
[. . . .]

Last but not the least- I am extremely SORRY to everyone for being so elusive in last 2 weeks. It had been an extremely demanding week- academically(!) & emotionally too. Drained me off all my emotional and physical strengths to pursue any PRsremorseful at my absence!  I know at least a few who are plotting to kill me as soon as they see me but I hope this public apology saves my ass this time! Though I'd be gone for another week but will more than make up for this absence.

. . . . with heartfelt wishes and tons of love for you all for coming Rakshabandhan.

Posted at 8/14/2005 3:29:25 pm by blackfog
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Monday, August 01, 2005
Her Greeting

got the best ever greeting of my life ! cannot help showing it off here
Oh and by the way keep guessing from whom

I love you soooo very much You've always been such a sweetheart.
And this was such a sweet and thoughtful greeting, just like you! Surely expresses us accurately. Just hold on to it for some more time honey!

    front her greeting         inside of her greeting

Posted at 8/1/2005 12:53:58 pm by blackfog
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obiter dictum!

Oh and by the way "obiter dictum" is the latin for "something said in passing", or an incidental remark!

Posted at 8/1/2005 2:20:44 am by blackfog
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Sunday, July 31, 2005
curse of 26

got this in a fwd. mail!
fascinating to know!

Year  Month and Date         Place of Earthquake
~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~
2001  January 26                Gujarat
 
2001  September 26            Chennai
 
2002  December 26             China
 
2003  January 26                Newzealand
 
2003  May 26                      Japan / Taiwan
 
2003  September 26            Japan(Hokaido)
 
2003  October 26                China (Sunsu)
 
2003  December 26             Iran
 
2004  December 26             South east Asia 

2002  December 26             China

2003  December 26             Iran  

2004  December 26             South east Asia

2005  July     26                Mumbai (Rains!!!!) 

Posted at 7/31/2005 1:45:31 pm by blackfog
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